"I don't dream about anyone - except myself"

You know I never understood why some girls out there make a career out of finding n'er do well guys and then proceed to have him undergo an "extreme make-over" at her hands.

This almost never works out in the girls favour. Actually, it's my experience that you end up setting the guy up to heighten his standards, open up a whole new league of women he has access to, and in turn he ends up ditching you for greener pastures.

It's actually quite funny how that works out. You fall for the "wounded bird" thing, come to his aid and fix him up just good enough that you are no longer good enough.

Let me save you some heart break here:

1.) If you are into the "treats you like crap thing" you have to understand that treating you like shit is his full time job. He won't change no matter how you dress him. Maybe that is your thing maybe it isn't. Either way you chose you are screwed.

2.) If you are into the "wounded bird" thing and feel that there is some good in there that you can conjure out of him - again, probably won't happen. If in the event he does start to realize that he isn't that bad off anymore, you are no longer a necessity. You just primed him up for someone he thinks he is better suited for.

I know too many girls that subscribe to either one or both of these forms of mating rituals. Those are the same girls that hate themselves, their lives, and end up on Speakers Corner one day bitching that there are no decent guys out there. Can you say "single for life?"

I wake up early in the afternoon just so I can calls 'em as I sees 'em.

Baaazing!